Now and then
people face ethical dilemmas either at the workplace or something
personal. Ethics ask, “What we should do
in some circumstance, or what we should do as participants in some form of
activity or profession.” Stephen J. A.
Ward, (264). However, in my case I had a
career dilemma. I was hired for a job
and without warning, I was jobless but,
it didn’t stop me from being the best that I can be. When I don’t get my way sometimes, I
understand later on that there is something better out there for me; I just
haven’t gotten there yet.
It’s always exciting to get a new job; especially
when you’re leaving from a job that you do not like. I have been working at my new job as a cashier
for about two weeks. Then after those
weeks passed my cousin was having her wedding in OK., I was in. I was gone for about 3 days, when I got back
into town. I called Kyle Fletchers, where
I worked to ask when they wanted me to come back to work and every time I
called they said will call you back and let you know. Well days and days later they never called. That wasn’t the way I wanted things to end up
obviously. I was very disappointed
because they never gave me a reason why they didn’t want me to return. I was
stuck without a job and I hated it. I
kept thinking to myself, “Good things come to those who wait” Violet Fane. That’s what my parents always taught me and I
know between that and what my pastor at church has taught me, I knew I couldn’t
give up.I was feeling down at first but, every day I sent out job applications for a month straight till I finally got another job. I know it was the determination and want for something better that landed me a more stable job than I’ve had in the past. I would call this dilemma the utilitarian approach. The utilitarian approach is about increasing the good and decreasing the harm. This approach also says it, “Deals with consequences; it tires both to increase the good done and to reduce the harm done.” Velasquez et al. (274) I believe this is what happened for me. I didn’t feel like I fitted in at Kyle’s. However, right when I started my job at Tony’s ice cream I felt right at home. I strongly believe if I’m going to work somewhere where I am going to be there a lot of the time I want it to be a business that I enjoy and enjoy the coworkers as well. This job for me produced the most good for sure. I stayed employed there for a little over a year and made and met some great friends and strangers who I became friends with in my hometown.
While searching for something better I used
the virtue approach. This approach
overall is about character. It states,
“Virtues are dispositions and habits that enable us to act according to the
highest potential of our character and on behalf of values like truth and
beauty.” Velasquez et al (277) When I was jobless I never let that be a sign
for me to just give up. I knew that I
deserved the best and that I would reach to my highest potential. Virtue is about love, being honest,
self-control, prudence, and potential. Velasquez
et al (277). If I didn’t have any of those aspects in my life I wouldn’t have
reached my goal of a new job. Having
these virtues can be really healthy for day to day living.
It’s important to never give up and become a
better person. There are obviously going
to be challenges like one day having a job and the next day jobless but giving
up isn’t the answer. Being a Christian
for me helps me to make choices to guide me through life. Having the utilitarian approach and increasing
the good and reducing the harm is the way to go through life to succeed. Furthermore, having the virtue approach helps
me to reach my highest potential, honesty, self-control, prudence, love and
many other virtuous acts through everyday life!
